It was 11:30 PM on Thursday night. I should have been slipping into my pajamas but instead I was slipping into my most “non-Mom” jeans and a sequined T-shirt that made me look 5 years younger (I hoped). I should have been slipping into bed but I was slipping out of the house. I should have been slipping into a splendid slumber but instead I was slipping into a movie theater packed with thousands of teenagers (and shockingly just as many twenty and thirty-somethings) to watch the Breaking Dawn premiere at 12:01 AM. To understand how I got to this point we have to back up 4 years. OK maybe 24 years.
I love to read. I am a bookworm. When I was younger I read EVERY Babysitter’s Club book in the series. I read Nancy Drew. I read fiction and non-fiction, biographies and autobiographies. I LOVE to read. Fast forward 20 years and 20 weeks into my first pregnancy. I read What To Expect When You’re Expecting, and The Happiest Baby on the Block, and Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child. And then I had a baby and I read Goodnight Moon and Spot my Toys and Where is Baby’s Belly Button. My second child was about 6 months old when the kids’ 13 year old babysitter begged me to read Twilight, the first book in a series of four. A fiction book about a teenager falling in love with a……vampire? No thanks. A book that would not teach me what my pregnant/postpartum body was going through or how to make my baby happier? Again, a book about…..vampires?! I didn’t have time for that nonsense. But she left it at my house anyway. Several weeks later I had just finished reading Baby Signs and was desperately in need of some reading material for a little bathroom time (TMI?) and so I reluctantly picked up Twilight. The first chapter was so-so. The second chapter was decent. And before I knew it I was 5 chapters in, I was hooked, and my legs were numb (TMI, again?). I finished the book a few days later and called my babysitter at 10:00 PM on a Tuesday night. “I’m coming over to get the second book!” And over the course of the next few months I read them all. And I fell in love with reading again. The excitement of being transported to a world that didn’t include poopy diapers or sippy cups of milk was intoxicating. The books were a total escape from reality and I learned nothing. I tried to spread the love, just like my babysitter had done for me. I had a Twilight sleep-over party with my sister and sister-in-law. After I put the kids to bed, I lit candles and decorated the mantel with framed quotes from the movie. I served Pomegranate martinis and Vampire red wine in glasses that I had adorned with AB+ and O- designs. I melted butter in a saucepan and added red food coloring to drizzle over our popcorn. I arranged Red Licorice ropes in glasses to form centerpieces. And of course we watched the movie Twilight.
I should have stopped drinking when I ran out of the martinis but instead I just switched to wine. I could have gone to bed when I got up to stop the DVD and tumbled to the ground but instead I giggled and hiccupped and giggled some more. When my daughter awoke at 6 AM I would have rather poked my eye out with a sharp pencil but instead I made the journey to her room, my upper body at a right angle to my lower body, and traveled downstairs to set her down on the kitchen floor at my sister’s feet, uttered something incoherent and slowly found my way back to my tile floor bed.
This story has a happy ending because I felt somewhat human by mid-afternoon and to this day have NEVER had that much to drink again. But the point is this……..what should you re-discover in your life? Is there a hobby or passion of yours that is collecting dust while you tend to everyone’s needs but your own? Could you carve out a few minutes each day or even each week to get lost in a book or a project or whatever. Would you be willing to put yourself first just for a little while? I think you would be surprised at just how exciting feeding your inner child can be.
“I knew exactly what I wanted, but I was suddenly terrified of getting it.” -Bella Swan, Eclipse
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